Monday, March 11, 2013

The Ever-Inspiring French Teacher


So this entry will be just a little more sentimental than normal, but I really wanted to share my thoughts on my visit from Mrs. Jarman tonight.

For those of you who don’t know, Mrs. Jarman was my high school French teacher and is really the reason I am currently in France. She inspired such a love for French in me that I had to continue studying the language even after completing four years in high school. Her energy, her own love for the culture, country, and language, and her wisdom over the years has helped me in more ways than she probably would think. One of her wonderful life lessons I remember her telling me: study what you love, not what you think will earn you the most money, because if you do what you love everything will work out. She actually experienced this, going to school to become a lawyer but realizing her true love was French and in pursuing French she has encountered so many amazing opportunities. This bit of advice has always popped into my head when trying to make decisions regarding my academics or anything really, to do what I love. I think it has been successful for me thus far.

In addition to being my French teacher and a source of wisdom, Mrs. Jarman also had the pleasure (I hope haha) of taking me to Europe twice during my high school career with a group from the school. We went to Italy and France in 2007 and Ireland, Wales, England, and Paris in 2009. Both trips were amazing and just added to the desire in me to travel as much as I could.

As she and her husband were passing through Arras from Normandy on their way to The Netherlands to visit their daughter, they decided to stop by for the night and take me out to dinner. We went to this little restaurant on the Grand Place with “Ch’ti” in the name (Ch’ti is the picard- or dialect – of the Pas-de-Calais region) and had delicious wine, an interesting dinner, and my dessert (crème brûlée) was delicious. She brought up how during her last school trip to Europe she was thrilled with a moment in the Louvre when the students were taking in and interacting with the art around them, and truly appreciating the experience. These moments are very special to her, as she says they’re the reason she continues to take students to France. She once told me that she noticed one of these moments with me, the first time I had laid eyes on the Eiffel Tower and pretty much anything in France.

These thoughts came to me tonight as I was walking home from our dinner and I was completely taken by just the reality of things. I’ve changed so much since young me saw these things that I had idolized as a child.  I can remember seeing Paris, the Eiffel Tower, the beaches of Normandy, the Coliseum, abandoned castles in Beaumaris, the Tower of London, and so many other places, and being completely enthralled by the history and beauty of these places. And yet, I am still taken aback by simple things I have found in Arras, and grander things I have seen in Strasbourg and the Loire Valley. With these more recent experiences, I know that that little girl who was literally giddy from seeing the Eiffel Tower up close is still present, and will continue to be giddy at the sights of Europe (just ask Grace!).

Having dinner with Mrs. Jarman tonight just renewed all of these thoughts and memories, and I really have her inspiration, encouragement, and love to thank for offering me all of the opportunities and the spark to follow my own love for the French language. So, thank you beaucoup Mrs. Jarman! 

Also, she brought some Maryland love with her (thank you Maman and Faja, John & Jessie & Jack, Will, Aunt Liz, and Granny!)


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